I dated him for just a month, and he left me because I wouldn't commit to him right away. I was just being cautious because my last boyfriend hit me. I didn't mean to make him think I was rejecting him.
I've been holding on hope of reconcilliation since he broke it off 3 weeks ago but I'm starting to lose faith. This is ridiculous. It was short and it's been awhile since it happened, but it's just getting harder. What's wrong with me?
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing. It's a tough situation you were in. Don't let it get you down, though. I know it's tough now, but it'll get better.
Most Helpful Girl
You are very smart here, dear, with Not wearing your heart on your sleeve so fast because of the past. And with the guy whom 'I dated for just a month' walking away because you didn't want to be hooked at the hip right away, I feel it was unfair of him to have even rushed himself and you into a Real Relationship as Quickly as he tried to do.
He Obviously was Ready for something more in store than you were and if he didn't understand, then he was not worth your own time of day.
Next time, before things get heated up to such a level, Level with someone right from the start that you are just looking to go slow with the flow.
There's Nothing 'Wrong with you,' you did Nothing wrong. You were burnt before and want to make sure you don't get too close to the flames again with the wrong man.
Good luck. xx
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