What is the easiest way to let someone you love go? I found out 3 days ago that my boyfriend has been cheating on me for a year with 4 different women and i ended the relationship with him when i found out however it feels impossible to actually let him go, does anyone have any advice or anything i could try and do that could help with this?
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The words we tell ourselves is very powerful. Read back on what you wrote. "it feels impossible to actually let him go" you are setting yourself up for creating this situation to be an impossible one. train your brain and tell yourself a mantra everyday. Very successful people do this. * I am worth a lot, I deserve to be treated well with respect, I have value, I am moving on and will be much happier in my future* I swear this works. I was in love with a guy for 9 years, same thing thought he was my soul mate, amazing passion best moments, best friends inseperable etc... I thought I could never move on or let go. He treated me like shit though and I woke up... a little too late... and realized i deserve someone who loves me! he didn't. You have to just immerse yourself in your passions once again, fill your time up with everything and anything, except for harping on him in any way. work out, meditate, write your feelings out, make yourself happy again! sorry about what you went through, he sucks!!1