I loooove my boyfriend. He's the sweetest most charming guy I know, he's private so he keeps to himself and he's stubborn in all the right ways. I think he's so handsome and I can't see anybody else but him!
But... I feel neglected. When I am with him, I am the most happiest person on the planet. So do freaking happy. Then he tries to leave and I get so so depressed.
here's the problem: he has never taken me on a date by his planning. He's invited me to hang out with him and his friends and he thinks that's all a date is. Oh and watching Netflix.
but here's the thing. The only time he makes free for me is at night around the time that everything's closed so we can't do anything but watch Netflix and have sex.. Of which he will leave me an hour after. (Sometimes to go hang with his friends) He refuses to let me comeover to his house when his families there because he thinks we're going to have sex and that I'll be too loud.
i asked him if we could do all these things together and he agreed that would be fun, but he never fell through. I'm always the one to plan and pull things through to finish. Like the man in the relationship.
He tells me he loves me, but he doesn't do anything to show me that he does! I offered to play video games with him!! I don't care for them, but I wanted to spend more quality time with him! I always watched whatever he wanted and I'd give him gifts allll the time. I invested a lot of time and effort.. I feel it's all gone to waste. But I love him, maybe breaking up with him was not the right thing? I cry everytime I think of him moving on and trying to get with another girl... I do love him! But we started off wrong. I feel like he can't fully committ to me because of always cry and bitch to him about him not loving me. He'd have to convince me and it just wasn't healthy for either of us... Right?
Most Helpful Guy
U need a new guy
the road to recovery will start when you find yourself a friend and discuss this with that person, when they tell you what you are doing is wrong and how its hurting you then you will realise how foolish you are and leave this guy
YOU DESERVE WAY WAY WAYYYYY BETTER THEN THIS GUY0
Most Helpful Girl
He seemed like a complete waste and he apparently has your mind messed up with you thinking your the victim. He sounds like he didn't try hard enough or cared about you at all. Also it seems like he was not into you the same way, you were with him. in my opinion either you were just a convenience or side chick. And trust me, I had a relationship before with a guy just like this. Maybe its not his parents he is worried about, maybe its another WOMAN like seriously that speaks volumes if in fact you never met them or been over to his place. Especially if he still lives with him or they live closeby. He definitely isn't fighting for you now it seems and I think thats whats really hurts. Hugs Girl you could a million times better. Get your best girl pals and go out, party and live life respectfully of course... HUGS0