Okay, so my ex and we broke up a month ago. We still kept in contact and he's told me he still loved me like a week ago. We hooked up a week ago, and I thought things were cool until he started ignoring me. We were together 2 years and had an intense relationship. I know he really loved me.
Anyways, he told me he has feelings for a new girl, and that he's going to date her. My friends that work with him told me that he says she's special and shit like that. Could he actually be falling for someone new? I mean, or is this a rebound? I don't know how you go from loving someone to just moving on like that. I've dated a new guy, and even tho I thought I was falling for him, I know it was a rebound. What do you think? we were together two years!
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in his own softie spot, there is usually motive in mind when it comes the time When... We hooked up a week ago.
Hooking up and becoming Hooked at the hip like before here, dear, are Two completely things altogether. He may have been Missing the Kissing, the history you both shared because you both have been 'Together 2 years and had an intense relationship.' However, with finding a newbie with you still on the side, he is thinking now he can have his cake and eat it Two.
Lay some ground rules down and don't become this Friend with a benefit whenever he finds this and You convenient. You are worth more than this
He is telling you without the writing on the wall and all, that he is Not into being Committed with you and that 'She's special and sh*t like that.'
If it won't be her, then you can bet it will be others. Don't fall for it, don't go for it and don't buy it.
Good luck. xx0