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I see so many girls with this idea that men can be changed. Men NEVER change.
If you meet a guy in hopes you can change the stuff you don't like, you are setting yourself up for a fail.
Also never pretend to be ok with the things you don't like to try and trick him into falling for you, so you can later try and stop those things, this is why many guys complain he fell for a girl hoping she would never change but she always does. If you put on an act and he falls for that person, you are deceiving him for the purposes of manipulation and he has every right to bail when the real you isn't what he wanted.21|10|0- Opinion Owner
He doesn't sound like a real keeper. I have to wonder what qualities you actually find endearing in him.
I never tried to change him. I was with him for 2 years and I wouldn't be if I didn't love him. I cared about him and I was worried about him not wanting to find a job, being indoors all the time just playing video games, treated his mom badly, etc. I never accused him for that or started an argument, I only tried talking nicely to him. And of course I was questioning our future together. I don't want to marry a lazy ass, especially not have kids with him being like that. So yeah in a way I secretly hoped he is gonna change eventually, not for me, but for him and us. I only pointed out things he did that hurt me personally, but he was too immature to change anything. In the end he dumped me. I honestly think I was too soft to him, I should've "man up" and leave.