did you regret it? could you get over all the hardness they have put you through? how many times or ways did u let them hurt you /?
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you would think that you would only improve when it comes to this but sometimes after experiencing so much of the same thing with different men, you get tired of trying so hard and you give up. you basically settle for less. this is where giving more chances to the same person comes into play. you get so bound and set yourself up to make something happen that most likely won't happen or will take a whole lot of time effort to make it happen that you will have missed out on other major parts of your life like your family, friends, career opportunities. This is due to hope. Hope is a bad thing, you just have to learn to take things as they go. think about your future and your future alone when someone special comes your way don't get wrapped up and make your life just about him keep thinking of yourself.
to answer your question yes many times with the same guy. it was way many more times than I can count with my fingers (and he was the only guy I gave so many chances to before him I was strict on giving guys no second chances). he never cheated on me, he just always broke his promises to do or not do something. like not drinking, not smoking or smoking a certain about of times, not keeping connection to certain people, being responsible about bills, saving money, etc. and I could never get over the these things I was always afraid he would do it again and never stop, I could never really trust him. I never counted on him when I placed a goal for us, but I would hope that he would help out just to make it easier on me. he's done quite a lot of things to break me, but I still haven't learned my lesson with him, I still want him and no matter how hard I try to stay away from him (right now he's on jail and its the only thing keeping me away from him) I know that if he comes back for me, I'll go right back to his side.0