How do you get through the part that hurts so bad that crying doesn't even feel like its enough. I just want to hurt myself or something cause I don't know what else will make it feel better. It hurts so bad cause it was so unexpected and I don't know what to do.
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Here is my advice... I've helped a friend recently with her breakup... The things I've said, was to take time for yourself right now. Give yourself time to heal, and remember... if it was true love, then things will work out, and you'll get back together.
Now sometimes it's always best to keep an open mind as well. If things don't work out, and things can't be resolved. It's not the end of the world. Sometimes things happen for a reason. It sucks, but that's how life is sometimes. You've just got to hold in there, and fight the pain with love. Have people around that you care about. Talk about how your feeling with others (as your doing here)...
But ultimately pick your head up, wipe those tears away, and know that every second that passes is a new beginning. Know it's not your fault, but his... It's his loss that he doesn't understand how valuable your love is. Keep looking for that person, because I feel we all have the right person for us, but it's all about having faith that god (or higher power) has it's best intentions for us, even if it's not the ones we want.
I hope and pray for your love to come back into your heart again... I don't know you, but I'm here if you need someone to talk to... Much Love0