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I'm afraid there's no way for anyone else to know the answers to these questions. Only you and the young man can know.
If he's still important to you, and if he's worth your time, then you need to sit down and talk with him. No more texting. Actual face-to-face communication.
Based on what you wrote, though, he is not worth your time. His behavior does not sound either loving or respectful.
Sounds stressful. I hope you can find a resolution that works for you. Good luck. :)
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