Most Helpful Guy
I am guessing that your culture doesn't grant women the same autonomy that it grants men. I don't know how to advise you so that you are acting consistent with your culture. If you were an American girl, I would ask why are you wasting time with someone who you will never be able to trust.
Most Helpful Girl
You tell him you want to break up. You do not ask. If you ask, he will say no. It is not a discussion or a debate. You tell him.