- Yes, the friendship should stay terminated
- No, I should just deal with her being in his life
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry to disagree with most of the crowd but this is a touchy one. All anyone here can do is give an opinion so here is mine. She is in love with him. He considers her his best friend. If he considered her more than that, given everything you have said, they would be together and you would be nowhere in the picture. Honestly at this point, I would say you have 2 options. You can force him to make a choice, which IMHO the only person who will end up happy in that scenario will be Her... Or, you can see where this goes between you and him (with you going out of your way to accept her), and if you 2 are truly in love and meant for each other - I suspect that in time you will be his new best friend (among other things:). You ultimately have to decide what he means to you, how much interference you can withstand from others, and what your end goal is in this relationship. Wish you the best.0
Most Helpful Girl
I feel you are doing the right thing with this nosy body female Buddy of His and it has been Way overdue here, dear... You should have set ground rules down a long time ago about the Fifth wheel Fatal fatale.
However, it seems that with you Now finding out that he wants his cake and eat it Two by perhaps Bringing 'His friendship back with her,' I would have to agree with you again that You should this Time... Cut ties with this man.
This is a hindrance in your relationship and strife in your own life that will Never change. He has Love for this girl of '22 years' and probably has been using and abusing every girl he gets wound up in hopes she will see the light one day and hook on to his caboose.
You are actually the Fifth wheel raw deal here, dear, and it will Never end. It will continuously go down a bad boy beaten path where it is War of the Roses. This is What I refer to as a "Triangle Threesome," where you are way at the tip, looking down, side to side, at the both of them and you have this sour ball and all.
Have one more little heart to heart with him and tell him Again Where your heart Is.. Then Ask him where the hell his is, because it seems that he is putting you on his back burner so he can keep his own hands in her pot a lot and I do not mean sexually neither.
She doesn't want him with anyone but Yet... She doesn't Want him in another way, you could say.
Good luck. xx0