The last five years we have drifted apart. I am an affectionate person that is not afraid to show it in public. She has turned into a prude. Our sex life does not exist.
I recently ran into a woman from my high school days. We had coffee and imediately hit it off. I told her everything about marriage. She went through the same thing with her ex-husband. We decided to start seeing each other as friends. She is the exact opposite of my wife. We are going to talk on the phone, use email, and meet once a week.
We are both in our early seventies but feel as though we are in our thirties.
She has no interest in my work. I want to continue working as long as possible. One reason is that with modern medicine people live longer. I want to make sure that I or should I say we, are able to keep up with our lifestyle, no matter how old we get.
Most Helpful Girl
35 years is a long time
You can't shatter something this long like this jus because ur sex life doesn't exist doesn't mean that you drift off to another lady
U r in a marriage not a boyfriend girlfriend relationship that hey girl its not working let's move on
She gave u her 35years too. So what if she had turned into a prude
U have turned in to a cheater
What about that?
Look in too ur own flaws before searching faults in her
She stuck to u even when u dint reciprocate things in ur marriage.
Try to work on ur marriage rather than working towards a new relation
By breaking someone down u can't build yourself3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
too often couples let things get worse and worse till there is no recovery. You may be at that point. But I will recommend you try something now that you should have done long ago: Couple's Counseling. There are many counselors who are trained in guiding couples to solutions that work well for them. Please read, www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10515-what-can-couples-do-when-the-relationship-is-rocky3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE