My ex of 2 years broke up with me 4 months ago because he lost interest. We stayed on good terms and were talking nicely to each other from time to time. I was visiting my brother in his town and I sugggested a friendly meet up. At first he was very happy about it, but then when I actually came there he bailed out. I didn't talk to him for 2 weeks after that because I was mad he bailed out like that. Then I finally asked him why and he said he thinks that I still care too much and he wasn't comfortable with seeing me. Is this the sign that all of his feelings for me gone?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like the breakup was equally painful for both of you... and trying to break up on good terms is a mature thing to do and healthier for both of you... However, depending on the circumstances of the breakup, he may Sense a temptation within himself to try and get back together with you, but then pulls himself back because he does not want to go through whatever emotions he went through in the break up with you again... And it may just be easier for him to turn away altogether than be reminded by you in his mind... to the contrary I would say this is a sign that all of his feelings are not gone for you, but the feelings that remain still contain pain in them.0
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like he's probably trying to protect your feelings as he thinks you feel more for him than he does for you. Unless you actually are happy with being just friends I'd stay clear. You're just setting yourself up for a heartbreak otherwise.0