I've asked him to meet me the same place we always do.
I wrote him a letter because I'm not sure I would be able to get my point across eloquently if I speak to him.
It pretty much sayd that I feel he's not attracted to me and that our sex is meaningless and that no matter how hard I try, he wants nothing other than a friends with benefits relationship and that I no longer want that.
Should I just give him the letter and say goodbye or sit there as he reads it or read it to him?
- Give him the letter and leaveVote A
- Give him the letter and stay until he reads itVote B
- Read it to himVote C
- Do it another wayVote D
Most Helpful Guy
friends with benefits never works out well its messy thing to get into, and usually one of you ( the female in most cases) develops deeper feelings, and if he isn't feeling the same you're only gonna get hurt like i hurt my friend.. just get out of it now and find a guy who actually wants to be with you not just play with your body0
Most Helpful Girl
I First Voted for "Do it another way" but face to face doesn't seem to be something you can do so I now say You Should... Mail this letter and just call it a day because when "Dear John" reads it, I am sure He... Will have nothing to say.
Why stick around and watch him get all tongue tied and embarrassed and just be part of an Awkward moment? I can see it now in my own head and believe me, it won't be a Kodak moment.
Good luck and believe me, you are doing the right thing. xx0