My ex and I have been apart for almost 6 months now and we have a 4 yr old together. I see my ex about once a week and when I do, he always treats me like I am less than dirt. He never acknowledges my existence and acts like I wronged him. Our relationship was off and on and last August is when he tried to come back and asked me if I'd move back in with him. He begged me not to re-new my lease, but I did because his behavior did not change.
So in he dropped me in Jan. of this yr and then I found out 3 wks ago he married. Each time I see him he treats me like crap. We have a shared custody arrangment of my son and I have to go wks without talking to him because of his dad. He basically acts like I don't exist. Why would he be treating me so bad? I told my friend and she said this is not normal because there are people who are divorced and things should never be this tense. Each time i go to meet with him he does not acknowledge me.
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I understand how you feel coz Im on the same boat as you.. My ex and I been married for ten years and had two children together.. He acted the same way like your ex and treat me like crap.. I think, he just couldn't accept the fact that you left him and glad you did otherwise you'll still be in the same or worse situation.. The best thing you can do is to better yourself.. Go to college and earn a degree or if you already have then just continue to live your life for the sake of your son.. Don't pay attention on what he does, as long as he's not physically threatened or harassing you then you're good.. Don't show him that you're bothered by his behavior because he'll continue it until you snap.. Walk away from it.. He's not worth it..0