So I need advice on something. I recently started talk to this guy who is attracted to me a lot. At first I wasn't so sure but I thought I'd give him a chance but I just don't find myself attracted to him the same way he's attracted to me. I don't want to take the bitch way and never talk to him again. So, how do I tell him I'm just not interested without coming off as a bitch or coming off as if I've lend him on?
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Do NOT "let him down easy". Be sensitive to his feelings by not being a cold-hearted bitch about it, but tell him the full, hard truth of how you feel, and leave no doubt for the future. If, after being crystal clear, he STILL doesn't get it, then you are justified in being a cold-hearted bitch (some guys ONLY hear the truth that way).
By letting a guy down easy, you make him think that he's still got a chance, and he'll just keep trying to figure out how to either improve his odds or how long he has to wait in order to win you over. Don't be this girl: