. I was with my boyfriend for 5years last Tuesday. The past year and a half he changed. He stared to call me names, and always fighting with me. He would ignore me after every single fight. For about 2 weeks everytime. He called me names like ' retard. bitch. . slow.. supitd. . he would say I annoyed him all the time. ' he said all that was because of me. I made him do all that. HE always would say ' fu** off " to me. He always talked down to me. He broke up with me a month ago and said he was never getting back with me because I seen his facebook. . ( he had stuff on it that he didn't want me to see) so he dumped me. He didn't speak to me for a month and then he cane back begging for me saying he only loved me. So I was weak :( and went back to him. Last Tuesday on our 5years anerversy he broke up wirh me. He texted me saying ' iv no time for u anymore ' ' goodluck' and that was it. I'm so heartbroken there was a girl he works wirh him and he was stalking her on every social networking sites going! ! Even when I was wirh him. I asked did he like her he denied it. Now iv been informed that he's texting that girl on facebook who he stalked from work :( im just such a mess I feel heartbroken and ugly because of him :( all u ever did was love him :( why all this? What will I do if he comes back? He probably won't :( I can't even type anymore im sorry? thanks everyone
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It's Nothing but a Full circle problem pattern in this bad relationship that has gone so wrong here, dear, and be Glad... If he don't come back.
You don't need all the cheating, being 'Cheated' on and on top of This, all of the abuse by this loser. Even though you have been with him for '5 years last Tuesday,' there is no good nor happiness that will ever come again with you both as two birds of a feather because there is way too much flapping and fighting with feathers.
He Obviously doesn't want to be in a Real Relationship anymore nor be hooked at the hip. I feel he is on edge, just a time time bomb ready to Explode, which he has and his showing you, even with Facebook, that he's messing on There and 'Every social networking sites going on.'
Move on and begin your own beguine of licking your war wounds. As much as your heart is breaking in two right now, in time, when you are able to focus better, you will see that he actually did you a big favor by setting you free as bird.
Good luck. xx2