So here's the thing, my ex and I were together 4 years. He was my first love. After him I've been dating here and there but no official "boyfriend and girlfriend". (it's been 1 year since me and my ex have been over) he broke my heart and cheated on me.. well, the guys I've been dating I feel like I'm getting attached right away and they always seem to play me at the end and I cut them off right away. Or if I seem something I don't like I cut them off with no explanations,. I don't have sex with any of them either, just go on dates and have a good time. Anyways my question is, could I be getting attached easily BECAUSE I was in a long relationship before, and miss that? Because I've never been like this. I was only with my ex.
Most Helpful Guy
lower your standards as far as physically... an ugly fucker like me would never do you like that ... LOL real talk1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, 'BECAUSE I was in a long relationship before...' and you are Missing the Kissing and all that you had and are trying desperately to replace the face, you might say.
These guys that are not even date mates, are "Rebound Roberts" I call them. When you go too fast, they even go Faster and it ends up to be a bad deal that is some Ordeal.
Go slow with the flow with Any Joe you 'Go on dates and have a good time' with. Easy is better and nursing and nurturing a relationship may end up to pan out better so no one has to Feel they are jumping through hoops for Anyone nor clowning around.
With today's toms, who many are sporadic and unpredictable, you have to be One step ahead of them. Go in baby steps and look before you leap.
Good luck. xx1