I guess if you start off as really good friends for awhile, it's hard to completely stop talking to each other. I'm asking because my ex and I are still pretty close. I was ready to distance myself from him completely, but he tried so hard to keep in contact. We never started out as friends, so it's nice that we still hang out and go to parties together, but sometimes I get the vibe that he wants more. I know he's still attracted to me, but the people around us keep trying to convince me it's more than that, lol.
Anyone else experience this? Why or why not are you guys still close? Any lingering feelings? Please explain. I'm curious to know why guys or girls stay friends with their exes.
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I just went through this with an ex- and it was tough because I thought we could be friends and instead he pulled me along on an emotional roller coaster admitting he still had feelings for me and wanted to be with me...but still couldn't because he didn't wanna do long distance..
now I told him we should just stop talking all together so it doenst happen again...but couldn't help myself and am limiting contact to emails! feelings tend to develop very soon...soo just make sure you remind yourself everyday that he's simply a friend now and not a priority.
that was my mistake :/0