My boyfriend (now ex) of 3 years broke up with me 4 months ago. Long story short, he lost interest, it was very painful but we ended on good terms, we even get in touch from time to time. Well I don't feel that much pain anymore, but I'm still sad that it happened. He is very immature and I know breaking up was the most mature thing he ever did, but that doesn't earese the fact that I still wish he would call me one day and tell me that he was wrong and he made a mistake and that he wants me and loves me. Yep I really wish that would happen. But I know the chances for that to happen are close to 0, it's only in movies that that shit works out with them being actually honest. And even if it would happen I am almost sure I wouldn't take him back. I doing pretty alright. But yet, I keep dreaming and imagining that he does that. And that he makes an effort to win me back, to bring stars from the sky to make it happen (because even though I think I wouldn't take him back, I know deep inside that if he really made an effort and convinced me he changed, I would). I think about this scenario almost every day. Hoe fucked up I am?
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It's somewhat selfish and conceited to say that you want him to try and get back with you and yet you wouldn't do it anyway. What's happening is that you want an ego-boost. And now please go and be the adult woman that you're supposed to be and decide what you actually want and don't pull a guy into games that will only make him suffer more.1