I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. We've been talking on the phone everyday and seeing each other often. So today, he came over and he told me he was moving back to Georgia because he only came here for the summer and after summer he will be leaving but he still wants to be with me. He says he'll be back every 2 weeks. I got upset (no yelling was involved) because why not tell me this in the first place instead of letting me have feelings for you, and dropping the bomb now. He should let me make the decision, if I wanted a long distance relationship. I told him "Why didn't you tell me before? When we first met, cause while I'm here crying, you'll be back in georgia" and he said "Are you mad?" and I said "yes". He said "Well, stay mad, you won't have to worry about me calling you after I leave". I wasn't sure he was serious or not, and I said "Well when you broke up with me, I forgive you and took you back. You can forgive me for being mad. Why are you even here?". We broke up a week before because he's uncle died and he wanted to be friends. But, I quickly said I didn't want to be friends because it would hurt me more and that I wanted to be by his side through everything. He didn't contact me for 2 days and then he called and we got back together again. Back to the story, I didn't say that to intentionally hurt him, I said it to prove a point, and he took it the wrong way thinking that I actually wanted him leave which I didn't. He proceeded to put on his shoes and leave. But, I keep holding him back and telling him to just sit down and talk. He eventually left and I followed him. I held him and kept explaining, how much I appreciate him, and thats why I send him long paragraphs about how I feel, and that I'm sorry. He finally was about to leave, I held his arm, and I begged and screamed for him not to leave me. Throughout this whole argument, he kept saying how much that hurt him when I said that and that what I said came from my heart.
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"Well, stay mad, you won't have to worry about me calling you after I leave"<--- well here obviously he wasn't serious, but i believe he was angry or just disappointed when u said u were mad.
now bout gettin back... i believe he'll do. he was temporary angry. it happens when people take things in da wrong way1