OK, so I wanna ask her the big question, but I don't want to get hinted at what is going on. Asking her family isn't an option because she's Japanese, her family is in Japan, and they don't speak English. Her friends here are all Japanese so even if they said they could keep a secret they could turn around and tell her what's going on in Japanese and I wouldn't have a clue.
The best idea I've heard is to get a ring she has and take it to a jeweler to approximate her ring finger size. The problem is I've never seen her wear a ring. I haven't gone snooping through her stuff though so maybe she has some.
Any other ideas?
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when I got one for my ex I did this: while I was holding her hand and playing with her fingers I looked which of my fingers looked approximately the same size ash her ring finger and. I went to a jewelry and tried the ring that will enter on my smallest finger but only the first half of it
It was the perfect size :)2