When I talk to him he sounds cool but when I mention getting back together he says I'm bull shitting and I haven't changed I miss him so much and I never really did anything but nag and we would get into arguments but nine years and it seem like he has forgotten me I ask him did he have someone he said he just wants to be single and I'm just almost done trying to reach out to him I feel like if he wanted me he would want to start over but he keeps saying he don't want a relationship anymore, does this just mean he has someone and doesn't want to tell me cause usually it takes us a few weeks to get it right or a few days but this time he has not been around me for a few months, should I give up and j know I sound stupid for asking this but do we have any hope that he may realize one day that he does want to get back together?
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I'm a nagger as well with regards to relationships and as I observed from my ex, he loves me a lot but he gets so sick and tired with my attitude that's why he chose to leave even though we still love each other. he might really don't have anyone beside him right now coz nine years is a long time and it will take a long time as well to move on. and I guess he gave you so many chances to manage your behavior.1