Alright so I was in a relationship with this guy for a little less than a year and a half. I broke up with him about 4 months ago due to him lying to me, his immaturity, him being manipulative and being emotionally abusive. I tried to make the break up as easy for him as possible, but he still took it pretty hard. I waited about 3 weeks before I sent him his things back, in the hope of avoiding any drama. He texted me once he got his things, and I asked him if he could send me mine. He told me he'd send it in the next day or so. Well, here it is 4 months after the break up, and I still haven't gotten anything except "I'll send it soon." I've asked him 4 times for my things. I can't go and get it myself, because he now lives in Kentucky, and I live in Virginia. Honestly I have no idea what to do. Any advise?
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Maybe try getting a attorney to write up a letter telling him you want your stuff back or your going to take legal action against him.. Yes any guy who keeps a girls things for 4 months is not the type of guy you want be with... That's what happens when you fall in love when your only 16 not that good to exchange stuff with each other at that age way too young i can see at least age 18 but that should be the limit.. Really there may not be much that you can do about getting your stuff back but the threat with legal action might put a scare into him so he will send your stuff to you really hard to say..0