i had this guy whom i have known for years and i loved him to death, we both fell in love with each other since school time , i was his most beloved girlfriend and i was the one who made him happy, everytime i was there for him through thick and thin we love each other so much that we even thought of marrying each other in the future he always talked about marrying me, having a pillow fight with me, cuddling loving each other and having two babies. And from his words he seemed very serious. i always had a dream to marry him only and i always wanted him in my life, i have never loved someone as much as i loved him. he is my everything it's so hard for me to leave him and forget him because he always gave me so much to remember he cared for me a lot. Though we had so many fights but still we ended up saying ''i love you'' to each other. we were so happy with each other until the day we talked about never leaving each other and he said in may ''but we have to leave each other one day and it's only because of one thing and that is our relegions''i knew that too but i still can't accept the fact that we have to leave each other. From that day till this day i cried a lot. i cried too much that i broke up with him but then i again went back to him because i can't leave him. i loved him so much that i started screaming while crying that why i even broke up with him? when i went back to him he said''for the first time he felt that he wants to hug me tight and cry'' i know him very well he is a very masculine and a tough guy, he's not sensitive at all he never cries. he even lost his one girlfriend before me entering into his life he felt sad but never cried. we both were so real and good for each other that he cried over me... My friend said that it's going to be hard for you to stay with him knowing that you both have no future with each other so move on right now or else your gonna be very hurt at the end , you've to do this or ask him to convert into my relegion..
i am hurting myself so much
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It's a touching story and it was sad to hear that, you both love each other, it's not your fault you fall in love with him nor his, it's the way it was meant to be, but since i know you are Muslim this dream may not come true unless he converts, but sometimes life hits you with a brick in the head but it goes on, let me tell you something i have been in this situation before (although my girl was muslim) and it was very difficult to move on, i cried a lot but it could not help at that night i moved on and it took me nearly 1 year to fully recover but looking back it was one of the best decisions i have made, my point is if he is not ready to convert then you need to take a big decision and move on.
Hopefully sooner rather than later you will recover in sha Allah1
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