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I use that option often, it gets the point across pretty quick and you both just move on. It's the same as cold turkey.
My thinking is, 'have we been together/become attached/dated enough for him to deserve an explanation?' if the answer in my opinion is 'No' then comes cold turkey.
From my perspective there is not enough attachment/investment in 'us' to begin with, you don't feel heartless because you don't feel much for them at all.
I would never cold turkey a guy i'd become attached to whose supposedly hurt me, I'd give him the reason why i'm leaving and that would be it. No further contact.0