Ok so i broke up with my boyfriend 6 weeks ago. After weeks of trying to sort things out with him and he ignoring me i went out and had some fun with a guy. I wouldn't have sex with him but iy was a good night. Anyway he found out who my ex was and we have not spoken since. The weekend i had some more fun with a different guy we had a great time no sex again. But this weekend i let myself and had sex with someone
Now my anixtey has kicked in and i feel like a slag. I was with my boyfriend for so long and its all new to me. I feel like iv lost myself respect by doing this.
Anyway my question is am i a slag?
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You are jumping feet first into Murky waters here, dear, searching and surmising that with a 'Different Guy, you are going to get what you had with your "EX" and with Sex... I lost myself respect by doing this.
Tone it down a notch here, dear, don't spread yourself too thin. By bed hopping this is Not Stopping the past from coming to mind every Time... You are trying to replace every Tom, Dick and Harry with His face and it won't work.
And even if he were someone somewhat Who you are looking for, you might end up comparing him In... All the wrong places. You don't want some Rebound Robert right now.
Nurse and nurture each one as in 'Friends' for now. You don't need to plunge into Anything like this. However I know you Miss the Kiss but you have to go easy.
Some np pussyfooting toms today, with just a touch of the finger, will think a girl is Easy and fly off the morning after, their job done, getting all the fun, and leaving You with... A sour ball in in your mouth.
Use the upper hand, learn to say "No," go slow with each flow and just do the right thing so you can Get back what your own "EX" may have taken from you from the start.
Eventually, someone will come along who is special and you both, when you are Ready, will be Ready for Romance And... Love with all the attachments.
Good luck. xx0