I asked my ex boyfriend if he wanted to be friends and he said yes. We broke up about a month and a half ago because he said he's not in love with me anymore. I asked if he wanted to grab lunch sometime but he said it's too soon. How does that make any sense? I'm confused. Then why did he say he wants to be friends
Most Helpful Guy
i guess he believes it's too soon to be friends at least after 1.5 month only... or he's just nervous seein u and he turned it down0
Most Helpful Girl
There's different levels of friendship.
There's that friend you call every now and then just to catch up.
Then there's that friend you speak to on a regular basis.
You both had a break up.
He wants no hard feelings.
He doesn't mind talking to you every now and then (possibly seeing you eventually).
But you need to give that time.
What would be the point of breaking up with someone if they are still a regular part of my life?
He's ready to move on.
You should too.
I think you still have feelings for him.
The only way you're going to get over him if you allow yourself that space.1