So I (24m) had an amazing relationship with my ex girlfriend (20f) for a little over a year, we met at our current job and both wanted the relationship and loved eachother. We had the same intereats and the same views... I wanted to marry this girl. I unfortunately became insecure by the end of the relationship and kept harping on asking her why she loved me and wanted me which obviously turn anybody off. We got into a huge argument a few days before we went on vacation with her whole family for her birthday/ our 1 year (which i started the fight) and I had to leave early because the vacation was too hard on me due to her not knowing if the relationshio was gonna last (not to mention her not wanting to kiss me ON our anniversary) and she took that as the final straw. She broke up with me a few days after she got back from the vacation. Now I have done the usual begging for her back during the first few weeks of the breakup which I know now was not smart, I then laid off of that because i felt pathetic, then tried to just talk to her and got nowhere, so I decided to just use that no contact rule just to fully fix myself and be ready to talk to her with a clear minds and bother of us not angry. Since then I learned what I did wrong and hasn't been moping and feeling sorry for myself. It's been almost a month of not talking to her and almost 2 months of us breaking up, she still seems angry at me and whenever I ask if she needs help at work she is totally stubborn about it (because we work in retail and the situation usually is she (a 5'3 small woman) is trying to lift a 70' tv by herself instead of ask for help from me who can lift it with ease) and one time she apparently saw me and had to go to get a breather because she froze up on the sales floor and was noticeable by everyone (and she dumped me). I still love her and really do want a future with her and wanted to know what should itext her to try to meet up and slowly get things into a new relationship?
How do I get back together with my ex?
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You're just going to have to give her more time. People's feelings will fade with time so you have to wait it out. There is a chance that she will never want to get back together though, so I'd advise you to move on, and use this as a learning experience. Maybe one day it will work out, but no sense in potentially wasting your life waiting for a girl that will never want you.0
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