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she could be trying to convince herself that she's done, more than trying to convince you. though she could honestly be bored of you, hate to say that though. im sorry you're going through this. but maybe she's looking for more than the usual (for her past 3 years). just give her space. and to really show it to her... dont even acknowledge her existence at church. if you see her there, look away. make it look like you're doing AMAZING without her. then she'll have to be curious about what is going on with you now. and if you move on and find happiness with someone else, she wil begin to envy this new relationship.