After we resolved that, he promised we'd do something the next day, and we had resolved the fight/misunderstanding and I jsut waited for him to see what he wanted to do. at 8 pm, he asks how my day is, what we want to do for the weekend and he said he's done nothing but sit on the couch all day with his roommate. I said my day was fine, and that's good he got stuff done, but I thought we had plans. He said "sorry I got caught up playing poker with my roommates, can i make it up to you?" and I said that's okay I could do other things and he said "i'm sorry i should've said something, let me take you out." and I said: "this is what i mean by you being inconsiderate. this is stressing me out and i just need some space, since you like thinking about yourself a lot just do that." and he never responded. The next day was my housewarming party and he didn't reach out or even come.
I asked him if he wants to break up or are we working this out and he said "breakup or not i want to be there for you and be your friend when you need it. let's go to this party tonight and just hang out and worse case scneario you walk away with friends and no hard feelings" and I was like no wtf and told him to get his things. When he did, he said "It's not working"
Most Helpful Guy
This isn't a misunderstanding, this is you being passive aggressive and starting drama.
You could have just messaged him early in the day and asked what he was planning for you.
You call this a misunderstanding when he tried to hang out with you twice and you said no both times after telling him you need space. You are being a horrible, unreasonable girlfriend, and unless you change your approach toward him, he doesn't want your unreasonable, self centered attitude.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like you and your boyfriend have communication issues.. you're both taking things the wrong way/misunderstanding and I think you should talk about it but be civil. Try not to let hurt feelings get in the way of resolving your small issues. The reasons behind the break-up don't seem like a huge deal it's not like he cheated or anything, work it out if you miss him. Try not to get too angry or take things to heart it will lead to him being more distant and more arguments. Just relax and think reasonably.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE