I messaged my boyfriend's ex asking if she beat him (because that is what he told me) she said that she had gotten the same question from many different girls and no, she did not beat him and doesn't know why he keeps telling people this, meaning what he told me was a lie. Turns out he beat her, apparently and that he also went to jail for it (this is true). So I did this behind my boyfriends back anonymously and he found out about it but doesn't know it's me (I think?) I actually have no idea because he hasn't talked to me for the past 24 hours...so I think he found out and is mad and or embarrassed? Is it really that bad that I did this? I just wanted the truth that he was not telling me, but I'm afraid it wasn't exactly my business persey but I AM dating him and I think I have a right to know. What do you think I should do? He hasn't messaged me or called me in 24 hours, and I'm very worried that he won't at all...
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uh, you definitely have a right to know if he has done something like that to a previous girl if you're with him now and he wasn't being upfront with you (which is understandable considering what he did...don't think anyone would actually want to say they did that)
i wouldn't bring it up unless he does, maybe you could try texting him to say what's up? how are you? if he did find out he may be embarrassed and wants a little time to put that feeling behind him0