My ex and I are planning to meet and talk on Monday. This is a serious talk because he has spoken to two friends of ours about getting back with me, however how do I approach the situation. We have a lot to talk about and it's a lot that I am thinking about on my end. He feels nervous of how other people will react when I come back into his life (this hasn't happened to him) and I am nervous as well (usually when I am done with a guy, I am done, however this is very different for me). I have 3 main topics that I know I need to address 1. Why did the break up happen? Why come back? and that if you come back into my life know that this is it. I can't keep waiting for him and he needs to know that. 2. He has to apologize to my mother (he has hurt her and others for breaking up with me because they had to see me go through a really hard time) and 3. How we can make sure that our second chance at being together is a healthy mature one. It's tough but I am ready for him to come back. I know I did things wrong and will make sure to address them, however I just am ready for him to come back and to grow together. Like he spoke to his closest friend for 3 hours the other night about me and our relationship so I just know that he and I are walking out of the dinner as a couple with a very different view on how we want to be together (we spoiled each other within the 4 months of being together, saw each other 3-4 times a week and always talked on the phone from morning to night so in a way we smothered each other and never got a chance to just breath and enjoy each other).
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The mechanics of who said what that led to the breakup are not too important. What is more important is what were the underlying problems that led to the breakup. And. . . what are you going to do to address those problems?0