My boyfriend dumped me about 4 months ago. He was right to do it. I had really bad bouts of jealousy. I recognize where we both, but mainly myself, failed in the relationship. I've been working through those issues for myself and not him. He just opened my eyes to it. I miss him so much. But I won't tell him. Is there even a point too when you're the one that got broken up with? We've had minimal contact but everytime we do it's always pleasant and slightly flirty. I want to tell him but I don't see it doing any good since he walked away from me... I don't know. What do you guys think?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you should tell him indirectly? That you miss him... I don't know how but you figure it out...👍
You might have chances to start from the beginning and give another shot to see if its worth being together...1
Most Helpful Girl
I have one piece of advice for you in this situation: you have to be able to stand on your own before you can depend on somebody and have somebody depend on you.
Like you said, there's some things that you needed to work on and you have to be honest with yourself: did you try to work on those things during the 4 months?
I feel like if you like him still, you should make it apparent that the feelings are still there. However, you want to give him some space since he did end the relationship. And I think independence would be good for you too.
If you get back together, its kind of like itching a mosquito bite: you're only soothing the temporary pain only to realize there's still the swollen burden of something much more.
I wish you the best, but please, take your time and heal your heart.2