Most Helpful Guy
I think you should tell him indirectly? That you miss him... I don't know how but you figure it out...👍
You might have chances to start from the beginning and give another shot to see if its worth being together...1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I have one piece of advice for you in this situation: you have to be able to stand on your own before you can depend on somebody and have somebody depend on you.
Like you said, there's some things that you needed to work on and you have to be honest with yourself: did you try to work on those things during the 4 months?
I feel like if you like him still, you should make it apparent that the feelings are still there. However, you want to give him some space since he did end the relationship. And I think independence would be good for you too.
If you get back together, its kind of like itching a mosquito bite: you're only soothing the temporary pain only to realize there's still the swollen burden of something much more.
I wish you the best, but please, take your time and heal your heart.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE