Have you guys ever successfully reconnect with an ex, whether on friendly/romantic basis? If so, how did you do it?
P/S: I've refrained saying "I miss you" to my ex probably more than a million times, just because I think it doesn't help the situation, although it still hurts me not being able to say so til today :(
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My ex and I reconnected few weeks ago. We were together 3 years and he broke up with me 4 months ago because he lost interest. We were in a LDR. I don't really know if what we do now is on a friendly basis or is it going somewhere, but we talk every day. It started with him initiating contact more often until he asked me to play an online video game together, and now we play every day. He teases me and flirts with me and he is acting like we are together, still calling me baby and stuff like that. But me, on the other hand, I think I lost my feelings for him. For 4 months all I wanted was exactly this, for him to call me and change his mind and get back together. Now that it happened I just can't seem to look at him the same anymore. I'ts not that I am afraid of getting hurt again it's that I don't care. He can't hurt me anymore because I don't care which means I don't love/like him anymore. It's really sad. I guess I could fall in love again with him if he put a romantic effort, but he is not. So I'm safe to say that becoming friends with him made me get over him.