I know you are supposed to leave some things for later on in the relationship (If it takes), but I am kind of struggling with balancing that thin line of honesty and secrecy. The topic I am having the greatest issue with is addressing the fact that I am going through/finalizing my divorce. As far as the divorce goes Its almost finalized, its amicable and we have no property or kids. Not to sound cynical but its basically the dream divorce if there was ever one to be had haha.
Anyways, I like to think of myself as a honest and trustworthy guy and would like to portray that as much as possible in my profile. My dilemma is whether or not I should put that piece of information in my profile or not. The last thing I want is to knowingly mislead someone into a relationship, only to upset her later on with something that would have been a potential deal breaker from the beginning. At the same time its not necessarily fair to me to have my divorce black out all of my other qualities that could be exactly what they are looking for in a man. What should I do? Should I mention some/none of it? I really appreciate it ladies.
FYI: When I married I was 22, and we both decided to split because of the Navy which I am currently still in.
- Post some information about the Divorce in your profile.Vote A
- Post no information about the Divorce in you profile.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Post but Don't Boast... With this I mean, tell them in a Tasteful and well done Profile that you are Divorced and just looking for Friendship to start and to see if something Special might happen in time because you are waiting to see if she Is... Ms. Right.
Some girls Care and others don't dare because they may find that a 'Divorced man' is not what her Dream boat is all about.
Be honest so the girl on the other end knows what You are all about and no surprises as a man who is This... Honest and trustworthy guy.
You say you are still in the Navy so make sure as well That... You tell.
Good luck. xx0