Most Helpful Guy
Not a problem at all me and my ex were together for 3 years and a year ago we broke up. I still hurt, but I have been able to move on from wanting her back, it really is wonderful to feel free and not have to worry about her or what is happening. However I think it is different for everyone. Break ups hurt, it is almost like death, and most of the time when people try to hang on they are unable to accept reality. I have to admit that I doubt I could have moved on if not for time. Usually it is the length of the relationship times 2 depending how deep or in love you were.
Most Helpful Girl
You're grieving your lost relationship, it will take awhile. But sending you hugs and healing thoughts :) it will take time but eventually you will hear his name and not even blink.
Just keep yourself busy, don't sit around and swim in your head because it will make things worse.