long story short met this guy online 4 months back. he's from a different state. we met twice. the first meet went really very he was head over heels for me. before coming for the second meet he said he cannot commit to me until the end of this year so we will just get to know each other until then and i agreed. second meet time was during my bday. during my bday it was very tensed meeting he was very aloof and wasn't reciprocating much like he was withdrawn and called me fat and said he wasn't feeling it. then we again met on the day of my bday which was the next day and he gave me a $200 gift card as a bday present. now since he went back he was acting weird and barely talking to me. I asked him whats wrong, and he said he doesn't feel it anymore and he wants me to move on. i just dont understand why would he call me fat when i looked the same the first time we met i didn't gain or lose any weight and he had no issue. then why would he give me $200 gift card when he wasn't feeling it the night before? he broke up with me almost a month ago and i tried to call him 3 days back he saw them on whatsapp but never responded or msgd me. i am unable to comprehend. somebody can shed some light on my situation? we talked for 3 months and we met twice in 3 weeks time.
Most Helpful Guy
it probably just hit him the day he met you that it probably wouldn't work. Like, he went home and was like..."damn you know what... im really not as into her as i thought id be" It happens. He gave you a gift, perhaps because he felt bad. I mean he did call you fat, which is kinda out of place for him to say randomly. Tbh i'd move on from him1
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Most Helpful Girl
Some guys will invest time in a girl they're not attracted to simply because they think she may be easy and willing to put out or because they need ego fuel and she's into them. So they basically use her for puss, self-esteem boosts, and ego strokes.0