I don't understand why my ex called and acted pretty much like he's my brother. I miss him terribly, and he knows I do... I was calling him non stop for awhile, but gave up because it was obvious he didn't care. We were together for 4 and a 1/2 years... and it bothers me that he can call to 'check up on me' and tell me he loves me still... agggh why did he do that?!?
My ex called me and acted like my friend?
What Guys Said 1
It depends on how long you've been apart or if he's dating someone, but I feel that he's either keeping you on hold, or is interested in getting back together. MOST men would not entertain a friendship while still talking about their love for you. You know him best, but I think he's regretful. Break up's effect a guy a lot more than you'd think. I'd say they often effect men more than women, because men tend to get comfortable and enjoy the security. In other words, it's more difficult to move on.0
What Girls Said 1
Everyone loves to be loved. On that note, he knows he can still feel that love from you.
Now, for whatever reason he is doing this, ginuwinely cares and wants to see that you are alright, uses you to feed his ego, wants to keep you on a string, wondering why you stop calling him, etc. (depends on the guy and how he valued the relationship). You need to do what is best for you. Talking to him at this time and not having control of your emotions is not something I would recommend.
Good luck to you.
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