I don't understand why my ex called and acted pretty much like he's my brother. I miss him terribly, and he knows I do... I was calling him non stop for awhile, but gave up because it was obvious he didn't care. We were together for 4 and a 1/2 years... and it bothers me that he can call to 'check up on me' and tell me he loves me still... agggh why did he do that?!?