When people are giving advice to guys when it comes to finding or getting a girlfriend, or date, they say a lot of these quotes or phrases "don't go looking for her, just let it happen", "let her come to you, let her find you". Because in reality, girls do not literally pursue or chase guys, its always or usually the other way around. C'mon, everyone obvious knows that in our culture and society, it's the guy that makes the first move and asks the girl out, initiates the date and relationship. Guys do not get a girlfriend just standing still.
What do people mean when they say "don't go looking for her, let her come to you", "just let it happen"?
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I tend to take it this way, when we are trying too hard, that unfortunately seems to be the time we mess up the most, and things won't happen for us. It to me, means don't put so much pressure on yourself that it MUST happen and it must happen NOW. I don't take the saying literally. Because almost nothing will just fall in your lap, well not something you want to fall there, anyway.0
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It means that you always find the girl of your dreams when your least expecting it.0
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