When people are giving advice to guys when it comes to finding or getting a girlfriend, or date, they say a lot of these quotes or phrases "don't go looking for her, just let it happen", "let her come to you, let her find you". Because in reality, girls do not literally pursue or chase guys, its always or usually the other way around. C'mon, everyone obvious knows that in our culture and society, it's the guy that makes the first move and asks the girl out, initiates the date and relationship. Guys do not get a girlfriend just standing still.
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I think what this really means is don't do things just for the sake of finding the someone (e.g don't join the gym with the aim to find a girlfriend instead of working out). It doesn't mean don't chase or pursue the girl you have interest in.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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