Well a while ago my girlfriend posted a sexual picture on a mans page. We argued. She kept telling lies about their friendship and told me its no big deal because its just facebook, i eventually asked her to block him. She did, but today I seen she unblocked him and added him again. Her mom came to my house 2 weeks ago after she cursed me out on facebook to appoligize to me for her daughters actions and tell me that she doesn't think she right for me and she is doing sneaky things and she tolds me I deserve better and my gf's sister agreed too. I just blocked her on all social networks and off of my phone. Since she took him off the blocked list and readded him I keep thinking about her moms words. Im tired of being treated like this but not sure if i should be that extreme because she added him. i just feel disrespected. I read about emotional abuse and do you think im in the wrong telling her to block him and do you think im in the wrong for cutting off communication today?
Most Helpful Girl
You definitely weren't wrong. Emotional abusers always get others to do their dirty work (I. e. her mom)1
Most Helpful Guy
You shouldn't just cut off all communication, but you should tell her that it makes you incredibly uncomfortable and that if she respects your feelings she won't have contact with that person, but that if she wants to continue to live like that she can do it without you because you're not going to put yourself through that.1