Well we broke up last February and then recently I sent him a long handwritten letter for my closure. It says everything I wanted to say like why I was hurt, how I'm okay being friends now and that I'll always be here him.
I'm surprised he read it because I write there that he doesn't have to if he doesn't want. He texted me the next day asking if he can call me. Unfortunately I'm at an orientation that day so can't answer a call. He said "some other time then"
My question is, should I wait for him to message me when he wants to talk or should I like ask him "is there still something you want to say?"
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I wouldn't entertain it, honestly. First, you should examine if him talking to you will help with your closure or set you back. You'd have a much better time and have more power in the situation if you don't talk to him though. If sending that letter was for your closure and you said he didn't have to read it then that means you don't need a reply and you don't need to talk to him about anything in order for you to have closure. That means sending that letter to him was enough. Leave it be. Don't talk to him.0