The guy I'm dating went away on vacation for a month. In that time, I can count the number of times I've heard from him on one hand. The worst part is, I'm not even surprised that he would be like this. Even though he tells me that he loves me every time we speak, he doesn't act like a boyfriend would. Heck he doesn't even act like he likes me all that much, even though I do think he does. I want to break up with him when he comes back, am I being too harsh? How should I tell him?
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My boyfriend recently went away on vacation as well and even though he promised me to stay in touch, he didn't really. It drove me right up the wall. I was worried, angry and confused. Back then, I've read a lot of articles and had to learn that apparently it's "normal" for many guys to go on vacation and not remain in touch. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him what you expect, maybe he is clueless. My boyfriend knows what I expect but doesn't care. I keep having the same discussions with him about not being in touch (he also does it when he is not on vacation).
I think you should ask yourself how much this guy means to you. You don't like the way he acts and the things he does, and people don't change within a day, even if they want to change. So be prepared that it will take some time, talk and also frustration. In the end, you're the only one who knows if it's worth it for you or if you'd rather just end things. If you decide to break up, meet up with him somewhere where you can talk privately and tell him that you aren't happy with the way he's treating you and that you expect something different from a relationship and you don't believe things can work since want things from a boyfriend that he either can't or doesn't want to give to you.0