We are a young couple who are very much in love, and if my boyfriend doesn't get a sports contract this year then he will have to go back to his country (That's why he came to mine). That's the worst case scenario, but I was talking to him just now and he was talking about the fun things he would do and all the parties he would go to when he goes back to his country after school with a seemingly complete disregard for the fact that he would not see me again if he didn't get his contract which he never talks about nowadays. We were texting so I don't know for sure how he actually felt but I'm not going to pretty anything up. Why would he say that to me?
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I personally think that you jumped into the relationship with him, without knowing the right information. The first mistake was getting involved with the guy, who is in your country based on a contract.
He was full aware of this information and he didn't share it with you, do you know why? Because he wanted to have "fun" while he's here. He was winning on both ends, he gets you to have fun with and if the relationship got that serious, you would ask him to marry you and he would stay here permanently and drop you till he see's the next opportunity.
If I were you, I would cut all contact with this guy and ask him never to contact you again and take the time to be single and enjoy life and get yourself together.4