I met a guy online and after going on a few dates we decided to just be friends rather than date. At the time I think he was scared of a relationship because one of his reasons for being only friends was that he was 'afraid of losing me'. So now for the past couple of months of talking to each other every singe day and hanging out constantly I've realised that I've fallen for him. I will never be satisfied just being his friend. I'm going to have to tell him he can't be in my life if he only wants friendship as I won't be able to do that and by all means if he wants to start dating again I'll be over the moon but I don't think that will happen.
Anyways, the thought of not having him in my life anymore is a painful thought and I've never really 'broken up' with someone before so advice on moving on would be appreciated. Thanks
Most Helpful Guy
It is rarely possible to move backwards in a relationship because, almost invariably, one of the two partners wants more than friendship. You should see him in person and just jump on him and give him a passionate kiss. Then you tell him, "That's what I want, and more, every time I see you and if I can't have that, this will just be too painful for me."
If he still doesn't want romance, then you are right, you should break up. I recently wrote a myTake on how to get over a breakup:
Most Helpful Girl
you can just think about yourself and no one will hurt you. its great.0