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This is extremely painful situation and I understand that it hurts. I don't think you need to justify your actions to anyone. Things like this make people emotional and sometimes that means acting out of character as much as we don't want to admit. Tine. You need to give her time. I would go no contact for as hard as that will be no contact for 30 days will be the best thing you can do for you and her in any form of a reconciliation. She might even need more time than that. Give it to her and you. No more pressure.