Most Helpful Girl
End the madness and stop driving yourself Crazy with being this girl's... Enabler here, dear.
You are Old enough to know what you want to do and whom to do it with as far as Talking. Quit Skquawking and be you rown straw boss and lay down some ground rules so you can go to bed at night with some peace of mind.
Tell this pretty little chick that you are busy, that mom has a lot more in store for you to do and you don't have the time to sit online chit chatting much. Tell her when you find a few minutes you will contact her and please, don't have your friends hounding me, I do not appreciate it, I will ignore Them.
Get on the same page as mom so she has something to tell her friend. Tell her what you are going through so when the time comes and She may be asking mom Inquisitive Questions, Mom has her own Answers as well to tell.
People put themselves in their own tight spot and when they allow it to go down more a bad beaten path, if something is not nipped it could very well in the end turn into a war of the Roses.
BTW: ADD a sad face, for laughs and giggles.
Good luck. xx0
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Most Helpful Guy
Okay well it seems like you really like to be alone, single it's okay, it's your life so it's your choice but instead of doing what you're doing now have you ever tried to tell her that you are like this as a person? I mean not everyone can read your mind, and I suppose she is also the same age as yours, so even her maturity level will be more or less same as you, so you can't really expect her to understand you by your actions, though she should but I don't think she is understanding you as such. Of course if you don't like it, you can pull away from a clingy person but what will hurt if you for once face her face to face and tell her honestly but politely as to what you don't appreciate about her and what makes you feel uncomfortable and who know she may understand and may stop doing that or at least try to understand you and then see for any changes in her behaviour, after that if you think you can continue then it's okay but if you have made up your mind then also I would suggest meet up with her face to face or at least write to her honestly whatever made you feel uncomfortable, uneasy and then break up with her.
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