OK so for some weird reason sometimes it is hard for me to imagine a guy has some sense of sensitivity, you know like they actually cry when they break up with someone or something like that. Basically all I can imagine is a guy saying "F**k it!"
I know there are nice guys out there who actually care about their significant other but I want to know...What is going on deep inside a guys mind/heart after a break up with someone you really loved and cared about? Tell me honestly, do you cry, do think of her constantly, do you wish she would call, do you wish you could of done things differently. Its ok to be sensitive, its part of being a human and I hate to think that if a guy doesn't feel anything after a break up then he really didn't give a damn about the girl. And I'm talking about a girl with whom you experienced your first real feelings like you could have had many girlfriends in the past but this girl was different and for the first time you fell in love, I'm talking about that girl! What's going on after the break up, because I heard that guys have more trouble getting over a break up. So be honest and just say the truth, how do you really feel?
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It took me quite some time to get over my first serious girlfriend, I still to this day think about her from time to time, and wonder why I was such a dumb(_|_) When it came to certain things I said and did when dealing with her. She was the first for many things, and still to this day remains the only one I've shared certain things with. After the breakup we remained friends for a time, but it became too hard on her, because I was 'so wonderful' she wanted more from me than friendship, but couldn't get over my past mistakes, so she just dropped me completely. To be honest, if it hadn't been my first, I'd have manned up and done the job for her since I knew it was a difficult thing for her to do. I'm not the kind of guy who cries at the drop of a hat, but I am not the kind to hold back the tears when they need to come. And they poured down like rain many times over that woman, and more so over my stupid mistakes. I've not thought about in her in awhile though o.O Thanks for bringing it up my dear=P1