Most Helpful Guy
Maybe since y'all couldn't get along. It's probably was the best thing for y'all to do. He needs a woman he can control so that would have always been a problem between y'all. You don't like to be control which will cause y'all to argue when he have something to say. So he probably been through something like this before and decided to end it.
Most Helpful Girl
That's horrible. Especially since it was 4 monthes. I'm sorry! But hey this guy did you the favor next time leave before he leaves that's always my rule of thumb with relationships.