Whenever we are mad at each other or something is wrong between us I feel that I really hate him and want to leave him right away. But as soon as he talks to me or everything gets back on the right track I forget all the bad thoughts and decisions I made and fall for him again.
A few days ago he got mad because I didn't allow him to touch extra parts of my body than usual and he started saying that I never care about him or his desires; despite that I really do but I simply have certain boundaries to the sexual relationship.
Since that day I'm trying my best to make it up for him and cheer him up, but he's not talking in a nice way and he's refusing to go out. And last thing is he said he wants me to leave him alone for a while and that he needs to stay alone a little bit.
I'm getting to consider his behavior really rude because he's making a big deal out of nothing. Instead of respecting me and my boundaries he's acting so childlike, and despite that I'm trying to make him happy and arrange a surprising event for him but he's just being so rude to me.
Is this a point where I should realize that respect is more important than love and break up for him for acting this way? I really hate him at the moment.
Most Helpful Guy
Well it seems as if your relationship isn't strong if after every little argument you're ready to break up instead of trying to communicate and make things work. So I think it's best both of you take time to think if you're right for each other0
Most Helpful Girl
Break up with him.0