so i contacted my ex and as we were talking again he tells me the reasons why he dumped
1: i am too gangsta (i am the most decent and proper person i only used to joke around saying yo, nigga and stuff like that)
2: he said i shouldn't talk about my past why guys rejected me that looks bad on my reputation : (i shared with him because he asked and i dont understand what he meant by reputation)
3: he said i had my feet up on his dashboard in his car : he drives a 2003 ford focus lol i felt comfortable with him and my feet were hurting with heels that one day and he held that against me
4: he said if i ever go on dates i need to show clevedge: no comments i was shocked. i am the type of woman i dont like showing skin. yes when i am with him i would show him because i think thats how it should be because thats how you make your man feel special.
5: he said i need to be posh: I don't know if he talked about my clothing or what i dress up really mod and classy. its very upto date i dont dress like a mom or anything its very nice form fitted clothing. i am really lost on this one can someone help?
lol so these were the reasons. can someone help me out here? its bothering me...
this guy really played with my feelings. when he was breaking up with me he said i was fat and he wasn't attracted which was a bullshit excuse and now when i asked him this is what he said.
Most Helpful Guy
You should probably stay the hell away from this dude. Definitely a control freak. He dumped you because you put your feet on his 2003 ford focus and because you need to show cleavage on dates. I'd stay away, you might end up in a body bag if you tried putting your feet on the dashboard of a brand new car.1
Most Helpful Girl
With the writing on my own wall and all here, dear, These are lame Duck Excuses on his own part and in his own heart Why... He dumped me.
He is not man enough to give you the Real 'Reasons' of the seasons so he has this silly list of Lies and loo loo Deceits to hand to you, making you feel like you have egg all over your face. The truth is he doesn't want to be in a Real relationship of birds of a feather who stick together.
You sure have this one pegged, he 'Played with my feelings.' Fly South now and forget this cocky rooster, he is Not worth even being a Fair weather friend in the end.
Good luck. xx0